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My wife isn't the least bit interested in sex and I am taking it personally. Should I?
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I said to her that made me feel good and would love it if she would pay me compliments like that more often. She said she will but I guess I will just have to wait and see. She never says stuff like that normally.
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Yes she is tired and I understand that, however our sex issues have been going on far longer than during her pregnancy and since baby came along. Her first pregnancy was a natural birth and she recovered well.
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The most recent one was a caessarian. I understand that there is a period of recovery involved after a c section. My husband had testicular cancer over 10 years ago. To fyck a long story short, he never recovered his sex drive, even when using Viagra and all kinds of medications and aids.
Our sex life stopped. He told me that if he was unable to have sex, then why should I have any pleasure! That is the way it has been. We don't even hold hands anymore, let alone kiss or cuddle.
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I told him I wanted a divorce, that I wanted to leave. He told me we would work things out. We went to a couple's counsellor once and he thought that was enough.
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